Tuesday, September 9, 2014

Coming Home: Our Stewart Family Trip to Memphis, Tennessee

So I am a little behind on this blog writing thing and I have a lot of catching up to do! We had a lot of big moments this past year: first birthday, a wedding, pregnancy, five year anniversary, vacation with family and friends. Most importantly, I would like to share about the family trip I took with my parents, Nick, and brother Bobby to visit my family in Memphis and a very special great aunt who at the time resided in Hot Springs, Arkansas. So weird to think of that as her home as she, my grandparents, and great-grandmother lived in Little Rock, AR for the majority of my life. It was quite the journey, and also my first road trip experience sans hubby with Nick. Through it all, I made many wonderful memories that I now hold dear.

Usually several times a year my parents make the trip to the Memphis/Arkansas area for an extended weekend to visit family members and friends. Ordinarily, I am unable to attend because of work related reasons. While teachers get all holidays off along with extra days here and there, we have a set of six paid days off and I typically need several of those to cover sick days! This time was different as I am working part-time and can choose my hours. So I chose to work Thursday, and then enjoy six days of traveling with my family. :)

It had been a very long time since I had a done a road trip with my family. Probably the last time I had piled in the car with them was when I was 19 or 20 so it would be very different this time around as a 27 year old adult with a baby and all the fun of the added responsibilities that brings. I was very nervous to not have Chris with me for moral support and some co-parenting backup, but I was still really excited for the adventure. We had done many road trips with Nick before, the longest being our 2 day drive to Michigan and back, so I generally had an idea of what to expect. I definitely was not going into this blindly! Still, I responded as any new attention-to-detail-oriented parent would by packing every known thing I could think of  that would make him comfortable and HAPPY. Plus an itemized list to make sure everything came back with us. My main goal was keeping him quiet and happy on a 12 hour car trip. I think I can safely say I succeeded in doing so:






This little boy is one happy traveler!


We would be gone Friday, March 7-Wednesday, March 12. This would allow us 2 days to get to Memphis with one overnight stop, a day and a half in Memphis, and a day and a half in Hot Springs although we would technically be staying in Little Rock for the night. The week leading up to the trip I was getting concerned because this was the time when they were having major travel delays in the air and on the roadways due to snow and overall bad weather. In fact, the major interstate used to travel between Memphis and Little Rock I-40 made national news for a huge traffic jam pile up that left travelers stranded for a full day.


 I was beginning to think this was a travel theme for us. When we did our road trip to North Carolina the national parks were closed the first part of our trip.

Luckily for us, this would all clear up by the time we were to be making our trip (sigh of relief).
When we first got into Memphis we were able to do a little sight seeing and drive by some of our old homes and places that we used to go to. My dad moved there when he was young so he usually takes us by the houses he lived in and his old school East High School. East High opened up in 1948 and has a lot of cool history behind it and it is just a beautiful building in general. Here are some pictures that we took on our little tour of home:


 East High School

 Dad's Alma Mater: Class of  1973

Dad's Senior Portrait



Our home on Corsica
 
 Then: August 1989

 Now: March 2014



My Dad's childhood home on Philwood Avenue



That night we enjoyed our tradition of meeting up with my mom’s sister Marty and her husband Joe at the southern comfort restaurant The Dixe Café. It offers a very home style meal with entrees such as chicken fried steak, shepherd’s pie, shrimp, and catfish, served with any side you could think of including fried okra. And of course a big basket of fresh baked rolls and cornbread to share.  They also have a pretty sweet dessert menu including a variety of shortcakes, puddings, cobblers, and a banana split. One of my favorite entrees is the Vegetable Heaven where you can choose 4-5 sides and get a nice sampler of all your favorite veggies plus mac ‘n cheese if you love it as much as I do!
Here are some pics of our yummy eats:

 complimentary rolls and cornbread



 catfish + fried okra


 veggies

This wound up being a very special night because it was the first time Aunt Marty and Uncle Joe were able to meet Nicholas who is the first great-nephew on both my mom and my dad’s side of the family. She could not put him down!


 Aunt Marty and Nick

The next morning we attended worship service at our family church St. Luke’s United Methodist. This is where my grandparents, great-aunt, my parents, and of course us kids when we were little attended church growing up. It is also the same place where my parents were introduced to each other for the very first time! Little did they know that in 1979 they would marry in this church and have three children baptized here along with 2 nephews. This church has a lot of special history for our family and I always enjoy visiting here. Plus, with so many extended family members and long-time friends you never know who you are going to run into!





the front of the church



the sanctuary pre-worship

 the balcony




A Look Back...

my parent's wedding day (June 16, 1979)



1989

singing in the Children's Choir 
(I was one of the shortest ones, front row- L on the end)





the Sunday School buildings


family portrait with Uncle Joe and Aunt Marty (minus Trip)
Napping with Aunt Marty. Church makes someone sleepy :)


After church, we were able to join my Aunt Paula and dad’s brother Uncle James for lunch at a favorite Mexican place of theirs- Los Compadres. The restaurant also offered a separate menu featuring a variety of Cuban dishes. James and Paula enjoyed being able to visit with Nicholas and were excited to announce that they would be grandparents themselves in the fall as my cousin Ross and his fiancée were expecting!





 Uncle James with his first great-nephew

On our way out of town we went through the heart of Memphis and drove by the famous Sun Studios where Elvis recorded his first album.


Next stop...Little Rock!


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